More Beautiful Than Necessary

Proportional Anxiety

It’s not that I don’t know what to do. I just get tired of making myself do it, you know?

Jan 9 • Tresta Payne

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December 2025

'Tis the season to get rid of stuff

But we can't all move to Walden Pond

Dec 13, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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After School

Reflections from a midlife, post-homeschool grandmother

Dec 6, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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November 2025

My Kingdom

A new essay at The Way Back To Ourselves

Nov 23, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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The Dangers of Being a Lifelong Learner

And why a little friction is necessary

Nov 15, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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What I'm reading

And how

Nov 1, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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October 2025

People like nothing more than to make their own decisions

Short leashes, parenting tips and tricks, and tethering myself

Oct 25, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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You don't plan to live a boring life

I tried using index cards to make my lists and carry a daily schedule with me, and that lasted about a week.

Oct 18, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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Change, proper child spacing, and gray beards

A Five Things essay

Oct 10, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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What "Much Ado" teaches us about the benefit of the doubt

Be wary of living by your misinterpretations

Oct 3, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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September 2025

The way out is not the same as the way in

Some thoughts on escaping the drain, and some links for your thinks

Sep 27, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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You keep using that word.

It's just me—using extraneous words to define things.

Sep 21, 2025 • Tresta Payne

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